Family contact may occur, in the midst of #childabuse #counselling. However, when the unknown parent disagrees with the losses of the child (victim), not much is gained in a reconnection.
Family + reconnection …
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The details of our reposted āStop Telling Child Abuse Survivours to forgive their abusers, starts to pin-point whatās wrong with focussing on the abuser and not on the victim! Unbelievable 6-word quote, from Grace Tame.
https://royalcommbbc.blog/2021/03/07/stop-telling-child-abuse-survivors-to-forgive-their-abusers/
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Todayās the day! Although the victim of a childhood full of ingrained occasions of #childabuse (through institutions of church-school-family) another Supervised Occassion involved āupgrades(?)ā to previously denied instances. This time round, after expected āmemory lossesā, the father admitted to remembering that some of these moments had been exchanged, yet had been ignored as simply āunbelievable childhood storiesā. Intriguingly, these same scenario had been raised in multiple Counselling calls, fore-planning an effective way to deal with them. Denial, Blame-shifting + Dismissal were included – along with a regular threat of āviolenceā (in his ācoping strategyā!). Counselling, for the parents had also been raised – in coping with the āInstitutional groomingā, occurring amongst various groups.